Physical activity is one of the best ways to
increase self-esteem. A recent review of the subject, conducted
by researchers at the University of Alberta, shows that people
of different age groups, genders, ethnic backgrounds and economic
status have all developed greater self-esteem as a result of
physical activity. Likewise, a wide variety of activities have
led to improvements in self-esteem.
In children, simple activities (those that can be learned easily
such as jumping jacks and other aerobic activities) seem to
have a much more positive impact on self-esteem than complex
activities. In teenage girls, cooperative fitness programs are
often more favourable to self-esteem than competitive ones.
A few studies paint a darker picture, however. They suggest
that some forms of physical activity can promote body dissatisfaction.
Women, especially young, white, middle-class women, can develop
a distorted image of their bodies. They overestimate their weight
and size and exercise vigorously to achieve an underweight figure.
Body dissatisfaction eventually leads to lower self-esteem.
Self-esteem — the view we have of our own worth —
is of paramount importance to our well-being. A positive self-image
helps us to be better adjusted and less defensive, to exhibit
greater social effectiveness and to accept others as they are.
The key to self-esteem is developing self-acceptance and feelings
of competence. Physical activity has a great deal of potential
for developing both:
To develop self-acceptance,
- learn to accept your body build and athletic talent;
- focus on mastering a physical task or skill instead of
comparing yourself with others.
To develop feelings of competence,
- set a simple, achievable goal for a physical activity of
your choice-walking or cycling more than you usually do or
learning the basics of tennis, for example;
- determine how you will find the time to accomplish your
goal: Will it be in the evening? Right after work? When the
kids are at school?
- have a second plan in case something happens: if the weather
doesn't cooperate, if another commitment comes up, etc.;
- enjoy the feelings of accomplishment and competence you
get as you pursue and achieve your goals.
Activity is a great way to realize your energy, creativity
and potential. If previous experiences have left you with a
sour taste about physical activity, now is the time to reconsider
the importance of living in a healthy, energized body. Moreover,
now is the time to consider the importance of living in a healthy,
energized mind.
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